looking at the couples in the mrts, sometimes i wonder to myself... girls no matter how ugly they look, sure got guys want them de... am i that bad?

hmm but i think i'm a little more selective in who i wanna be with... there is this whole long list of criteria to fulfill... so far only a handful manage to squeeze through...

to be frank, wendy did not meet it too... but there is this other factor that caught my attention... u ask me to pin point it i also cant.. but i can say she have found out what I have wanted and what i will never want and go by it pretty well...

i aint a very easy guy to please... those who really know me knows it aint easy being someone close to me... the expectation n stuff...

but hell, she made it through 2 years.. its a real feat... ups and downs.. but i believe the downs are pretty intense.. i may look very mild.. but i do have an attitude too... its hard to tame it i guess?

well, i must say she aint the most easy girl to maintain/handle too.. from a single free bird, never had a gf before. To a gf who require alot of love and attention. its quite tiring at times i must say.. i have ever thought of giving up in the past too.. as we all know she stays 1hour from my place.. quite taxing on travelling n physical..

but always when i see her cry, one word u can discribe me with... LOST. i totally dono wat to do, feel pain inside me and just feel like hugging her.. hmm yea.. its that simple.. no need of words..


oh well... haix.


mummy always say i like new stuff... not contented with what i have, always like to try new things... i guess its right too.. look at my archery equipement? i have tried almost everything of the top most quality and range...

spend unnecessary money, gained unnecessary trouble

but still at the end of the day, i will throw this new thing one side and go back to the one i had at the very beginning... i got my this black bow 3 years ago... through this 3years i had 3 other bows... all itchy backside wanna try new stuff... but what happen to all 3?

SOLD!

not that they're no good... but i still love my old companion... lucky my black bow wont scold or leave me... spend so much money buy den sell at lost, got so much trouble by getting them, what do i have now? nothing new actually...

bad habit.

I guess its the same principle... i may like to try new things and stray off course... all it takes is a little wake up call... i'm back.. faithful is my motto... "you shi you zhong". once i feel this is that thing i want and it is very good with me, i will never think of leaving... =)

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haix... in times of need, i really need you... ur advises, company or even your voice... is enough.. becox the standard is set according to what you are already... others are hard to match up.. or can i say, the door aint open?

not becox only when i'm in need, i need you... its very specific who i look for when i'm troubled... only the closest.. only the dearest...

i wont even talk to my family when i am troubled... i only wanna talk to you... the deepest in my heart? of cox when i'm happy, i wish u were here right by my side too... through thick and thin.

i have asked myself... can i accept if one day... one day u ever returned? yes i would... this is something new and very difficult coming from the mouth of eugene chiam... but yes. i will drop everything that have happened during my absence.. nothing will be asked if nothing is said willingly..

what about my family? so far... whatever i have pushed for, they do not have a choice but to accept.. if they still want me as a son.. they have to show respect to those dear to me... and they love me i know...

i cant promise that they can re-accept her, but i will do my very best.. to work tgt with her to gain back the recognition she once had.

"i think i'm just thinking too much..."
talking rubbish, talking of the impossible.


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i will just observe you from a distance... offer any assistance i can give... watching another guy call you, baby...


her name is wendy..